Let’s face it: modern weddings are built for extroverts. From the photo shoots to the first dance to the personalized hashtags, they can feel like they’re all about being out there, connecting with people, and making yourself the star of the day. And that works—for some of us. But it definitely doesn’t work for everyone. There are a lot of introverts and more private people out there who don’t feel comfortable with being the center of attention—but that doesn’t mean that they can’t have an amazing, joyful wedding day.