One of the first things you’ll need to do after you get engaged? Decide when your wedding will be, of course! You’re happy, in love, and eager to spend the rest of your lives together, so you might be inclined to tie the knot as quickly as possible. On the other hand, a wedding-planning to-do list seems to go on, and on, and on…making a longer engagement sound like a better choice for some. So should you cut to the chase and head down the aisle, or should you take your time? We asked a few wedding pros to share their top reasons not to rush your wedding—as well as why you just might want to.