“There are sooo many bachelorette parties every year, and based on my social media stalking, most of them have one theme: Get Drunk And Eat A Penis Cake. We wanted to make sure the one we threw was as special as our bride-to-be, and differentiating our theme helped us do that. (We landed on pajama party, in case you were wondering, and yes, she will be wearing a bridal onesie.)

So as my gift to the wedding planning world, I’ve decided to pass along the best themes I came across in my research to help other bridesmaids in need. Whether you’re looking for a rager or a more chill night-in, I’ve got you covered.”