If you have less than a few million in the bank, then throwing a lavish wedding is one of the biggest money mistakes you and your spouse-to-be could make. In fact, a 2014 study by a pair of Emory professors found that women whose weddings cost more than $20,000 were 1.6 times more likely wind up divorced than those whose weddings cost between $5,000 and $10,000.
Spending less on a wedding doesn’t have to mean eloping or getting married in a Taco Bell (although there is a chapel in one of the Las Vegas locations). There are plenty of ways to have a Pinterest-worthy wedding without spending big bucks.
Choose the best date and time
Most people get married on a Saturday — and thanks to the basic laws of supply and demand, wedding locations and services cost the most on this popular day. Opt for a Friday or Sunday ceremony to benefit from big savings.
Speaking of strategic timing, you could hold your reception at an unconventional time to spend less cash. Brunch food costs much less than dinner, and if you’re providing an open bar, your friends are less likely to get sloshed on your dime at 11 a.m. on a Sunday morning than they are at 8 p.m. on Saturday.
Mimosas are delicious, you don’t need to buy expensive (or even real) champagne to make them, and they go great with a wedding brunch. Plus, if your Sunday wedding is over by mid-afternoon, your friends will be home in time to recuperate before work on Monday.
Be smart about location and decoration
Most couples spend about half their wedding budget on the venue. Be smart about where you tie the knot, and you’ll spend a lot less.
If you have a friend with an awesome backyard, ask if they’d offer up their digs as your wedding destination in lieu of a gift. They’ll likely be honored. If your circle is made up of apartment dwellers, look into state parks or beaches where permits cost less than $500. If you’re looking to get hitched in the city, then look into a local park, where a wedding permit may cost little to nothing. In Washington, D.C., for example, you can get married at the beautiful Jefferson Memorial for just $90. Also consider getting married at your alma mater, as universities often have low event fees.
Further, a naturally beautiful spot can be spruced up with just a few flowers or homemade decorations, saving you the thousands you might otherwise spend on luxe décor.
Dress your best on a budget
With all eyes on you at your wedding, you’ll want to be well-dressed — but this doesn’t mean you need to spend more than $1,500 for a dress like the average bride.
I got my wedding dress on Etsy for under $200 by searching “vintage white lace dress.” Estate sales and thrift stores are another great place to find beautiful old dresses that make a stylish statement for a fraction of the cost. Or, if you have your heart set on a traditional gown, rent your dress for less than a third of what you’d pay to buy.
As for the groom’s gear, consider a slacks-and-vest combo instead of a traditional suit if you don’t already own one, or shop discount stores for suits and ask your local dry-cleaner if they have an on-site tailor who will do alterations on the cheap.
Get creative with your food options
To save big bucks, skip the traditional caterer and opt out of the big white wedding cake. Local food trucks may be willing to serve unique offerings at a fraction of the cost of a traditional caterer, or you might ask a cafe you love if it can whip up some food for your guests.
We hired a local crepe-maker to serve both meals and desserts at our wedding, and our friends are still talking about it. Another of our friends had a pie buffet, which meant multiple dessert options and something for everyone. Bonus: When you serve a bunch of pies, crepes, or cupcakes, you avoid the awkward and unnecessary spectacle of smashing cake in each other’s faces.